Door

How I wish the door was opened for me, but i can only hope that it will not closed to isolate me now...

"Long Lasting Relationship"

Boy girl relationship is hard to last long, because we tend to ask for more from each other over time. We will aspect more over time but we appreciate less. Everything that once touched you no longer do because you had get used to them. Excessive love will become supposedly love.

May everyone of us learn to appreciate, and learn to give more, ask less.

愛你本來的样子(ai ni ben lai de yang zi) Loving the original you

人间的愛通常都是“换取”来的；聪明的人比笨的人多得一点尊敬，漂亮的人比丑人多得一点疼爱，有才华的人比愚拙人多得一点欣赏。所以，一般人都会试着多“累积”一些条件，以换取爱。这样的公式使得人骄傲，而不愿意付出爱。
(ren2 jian1 de3 ai4 tong1 chang2 dou1 shi4 "huan4 qu3" hui2 lai2 de3; cong1 ming2 de3 ren2 bi3 ben4 de3 ren2 duo1 de2 yi4 dian3 zun1 jing4, piao4 liang4 de3 ren2 bi3 chou3 ren2 duo1 de2 yi4 dian3 teng2 ai4, you3 cai2 hua2 de3 ren2 bi3 yu2 zhuo2 ren2 duo1 de2 yi4 dian3 xin1 shang3. suo2 yi3, yi4 ban1 ren2 dou1 hui4 shi4 zhe4 duo1 "lei3 ji1" yi4 xie1 tiao2 jian4, yi3 huan4 qu3 ai4. zhe4 yang4 de3 gong1 shi4 shi3 de2 ren2 jiao1 ao4, er2 bu4 yuan4 yi4 fu4 chu1 ai4.)
Love in this world is usually obtained through "exchange"; an intelligent person gets more respect than a stupid person, a beautiful person gets doted more than an ugly person, a talented person gets more appreciation than a stupid and clumsy person. Therefore, normally people will attempt to "accumulate" more qualities, to exchange for love. Such formula causes the human to be arrogant, and not willing give out love.

上帝的爱长阔高深，如果必须要证明自己够强，够好，才能赚取祂的爱，以人的卑微是绝对不可能的。在上帝的眼中，最好的礼物就是你自己，你是祂的杰作，祂欣赏你，原原本本的你。祂爱你，不是因为你配，而是祂舍不得你轻看自己。
(shang4 di4 de3 ai4 chang2 kuo4 gao1 shen1, ru2 guo3 bi4 xu1 yao4 zheng4 ming2 zi4 ji3 gou4 qiang2, gou4 hao3, cai2 neng2 zhuan4 qu3 ta1 de3 ai4, yi3 ren2 de3 bei1 wei1 shi4 jue2 dui4 bu4 ke3 neng2 de3. zai4 shang4 di4 de3 yan3 zhong1, zui4 hao3 de3 li3 wu4 jiu4 shi4 ni3 zi4 ji3, ni3 shi4 ta1 de3 jie2 zuo4, ta1 xin1 shang3 ni3, yuan2 yuan2 ben2 ben3 de3 ni3. ta1 ai4 ni3, bu4 shi4 yin1 wei4 ni3 pei4, er2 shi4 ta1 she3 bu4 de2 ni3 qing1 kan4 zi4 ji3.)
God's love is great, if we have to prove oneself strong enough, good enough, in order to earn His love, it will be absolutely impossible by humans' base and low. However, in God's eyes, the best gift is you, you are His great masterpiece, He appreciate you, the original you. He love you, not because you match, but He does not give up you to despise yourself.

许多人还沉迷在尘世的竞争中，在纷乱的世间找寻自我的价值，其实天父一直在你我身边，等我们投入祂的怀中，成为祂的孩子。~摘自《爱你本来的样子》~
(xu3 duo1 ren2 hai2 chen2 mi2 zai4 chen2 shi4 de3 jing4 zheng1 zhong1, zai4 fen4 luan4 de3 shi4 jian1 zhao3 xun2 zi4 wo3 de3 jia4 zhi2, qi2 shi2 tian1 fu4 yi4 zhi2 zai4 ni2 wo3 shen1 bian1, deng3 wo3 men2 tou2 ru4 ta1 de3 huai2 zhong1, cheng2 wei2 ta1 de3 hai2 zi3. ~zhai1 zi4 《ai4 ni3 ben3 lai2 de3 yang4 zi3》~)
Many people are still into this worldly competition, pursuing self-value in this chaotic society, actually heavenly father is continuously being with us, waiting for us to go to His bosom, to become His child. ~cited from 《爱你本来的样子》~